Thursday, August 22, 2019

Intentional Mentoring - the Key to Leaving a Legacy!


Good morning.
As I’ve been thinking around the whole subject of leaving a legacy to those who are coming behind us in life, my attention was drawn to a new book on mentoring. (Intentional Mentoring by Paul Wilcox, published by Instant Apostle) Mentoring is sharing knowledge, skills and life experience to guide another towards reaching their full potential; it’s a journey of shared discovery. It’s the ability and the desire to develop others so that they can excel, even to the point of doing better than we did in our turn. And it doesn’t happen by accident. Mentoring really does need to be intentional on our part.

Many years ago, my wife left school after her A levels and began work in a laboratory. There she found herself working alongside a very experienced and much older colleague. It soon became clear that this person was not interested in explaining to the newcomer what the various machines and gadgets in the lab actually did. It seemed that she felt that the knowledge she had gained over the years was her only protection against whatever threat the young upstart represented.

In contrast to this kind of attitude, Jesus of Nazareth did the exact opposite. He took a group of a dozen or so young guys and mentored them. First, he showed them what to do, then he worked with them while they tried to do it, and then he stood back and sent them out to do it themselves, regularly gathering them for encouragement and guidance.  Mentoring with a kind heart can be one of the best kinds of legacy we can pass on to the next generation. Think about who you might mentor today, or perhaps who might mentor you.

Have a great day.